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Sometimes, I Get Prizes

There are all sorts of greats about blogging — like reaching people who need breast cancer information and inspiration, connecting with amazing folks I would have never met had I not launched this space on the Internet 8 years ago, and journaling my story for my own therapeutic benefit — but one of the neatest perks of penning my details is scoring goodies.

Recently, I was asked by the crew over at Scarves Dot Net (SDN) to answer some interview questions for the SDN Spotlight. And I did. (I’ll point you in the direction of the piece once it publishes.) And after I submitted my responses to eight questions, my lovely contact person invited me to pick a scarf to serve as a gift for my contribution to the SDN blog. I picked this striped orange number, and I can’t wait to throw it around my neck in some fashionable display. Fortunately, SDN features a nifty guide to 50+ knots, so I can make sure I look the part of a stylish girl, even though I’m really not all that spiffy.

I’m telling you this happy little story because I am way thrilled about my new prize, but also to recommend that you pick up your own scarf or two — for you, for friends and family, for teachers, for a cancer survivor who needs a little color in her life. And, of course, I say go for the striped orange number. Just because I love mine.

Thank you, SDN, for sharing my story and for your kind and generous gift.

Letter to a Little Girl

I just wrote a letter to a 9-year-old little girl who will begin year-long chemotherapy for a brain tumor that could not be completely removed via surgery. I am sending her (along with the letter) a pair of comfy, cozy, fuzzy socks because they helped me when I was sick. Suddenly, though, my illness at age 34 does not seem as important as hers at age 9. And also, why must today deliver such sad news?

Give the Gift of Comfort

I know you’re probably consumed with holiday gift buying right now — I know my head is still whirling from all the madness surrounding Black Friday (no, I didn’t shop on that day) and Cyber Monday (I did order a pair of discounted running shoes) — but if you can take just a teeny tiny moment (3.5 minutes, actually) to watch this video, I think you’ll discover the true meaning of giving.

Giving Comfort welcomes donations for comfort kits that are given to cancer patients in need (donate now!). You can also purchase kits for our own friends and family members (purchase now!). I can’t tell you how many times people have asked me, “What do I get my friend who has just been diagnosed with cancer?” I usually point to books, candles, and comfy socks (these were my favorite goodies). I’m adding comfort kits to my list of suggestions. Starting now.

No Cancer, Another Birthday

You know that Ricky Martin commercial, where the singer belts out a peppy happy birthday tune and states his wish for less cancer and more birthdays? Well, Ricky will be pleased to know that tomorrow — more than six years after cancer — I get another birthday! And while the big 41 won’t take effect until I wake up in the morning, the grand celebration took place tonight. It was a family affair, and there was a whopper basket of goodies.

And a delicious mom-cooked gluten-free dinner (sorry, forgot to snap a shot of my taco salad), plus beautiful cookie bars, which were not gluten-free, but everyone else loved them, and all I wanted was fresh fruit, which I got!

And things really knocked up a notch when my oldest child, who had banned all swimming this summer decided to take the plunge, because it was evening and he didn’t need sunscreen.

And then there was his silly cousin and her fancy pool hair, which looks something like a toupee, and a lot like Princess Leia when she parts it down the middle, which she did right after this pose.

And have I mentioned that I got a rockin’ camera for my birthday, which happens to be responsible for all these pretty pics? Yep.

I love my camera.

I love my family.

I love my birthday.

Happy Girls Are the Prettiest Girls

Maybe you need a gift for a survivor girl (or any girl), a present for yourself, or a little something for Mom (Mother’s Day is this Sunday, May 8). Well, then, may I suggest this inspirational piece? Are there really any better words for guiding one through life’s stumbles and tumbles? I think not. Visit MixedMediaMomma at etsy to order. Just $15.

I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I love that!

Click on photo!

Heart of Haiti — Because Moms Rock

She was the first girl to to calm my fears when I found a lump in my breast. “It’s probably nothing to worry about,” she told me (because that’s what moms do), and she was the first one to race over to my house when the surgeon who performed my biopsy called and told me, “Unfortunately, cancer cells were found.” She was the one who sat by my side prior to surgery, camped out in the hospital lobby waiting for the outcome, and announced at my beside after I was all stitched up, “The cancer didn’t spread!” She sat with me for every chemo infusion, watched my kids for every radiation treatment, hauled me into the cancer clinic when I could barely stand up, and then escorted me to my own private room, where I spent five days with blood counts numbering in the 700s. She was back with me for the second hospital stay, too, and really, whenever I needed her, she was there. She is a woman who truly helped me — and she still does, like every day, because I have two little boys, and who doesn’t need assistance with that madness?

Yep, my mom is a special girl, and I honor her always — especially on Mother’s Day, which is coming up real soon, you know? May 8 is the big day!

Wanna appreciate your momma? Here’s an idea for doting on mom and helping other women in need, also — all at the same time:

Shop the Heart of Haiti Project (HOH), an endeavor founded by Willa Shalit (daughter of Gene Shalit) and her company, Fairwinds Trading. HOH offers artisan-crafted decorative arts and jewelry for sale, and all income derived from sales of the products on the HOH site enhances an artisan’s family’s nutrition, educates children, and brings access to healthcare and dignity. Macy’s is a partner in this venture, and you can shop the HOH collection in its entirety at http://bit.ly/gaalFP.

BONUS: Special 15% discount for YOU when you purchase a Mother’s Day gift from the Heart of Haiti and Rwanda Path to Peace collection between 5/3 – 5/8. Just use promocode: CLEVERGIRLS.

Will my mom be getting something special from HOH?

Stop reading here, mom!

Photo: www1.macys.com

Yes.

And it might look something like a certain pendant pictured to the left.

Which one will it be? Gosh, I like them all. Can’t decide on a favorite just yet.

What’s your fave find on the HOH website? Share in the comments. And if you do splurge on mom while shopping around, name your pick so we can check it out.

I was selected for this very special “CleverHaiti” opportunity by Clever Girls Collective, which endorses Blog With Integrity. All opinions are my own.

Pretty-In-Pink Pencil a Perfect Present

Fancy pencils are on sale at my kids’ school this week, and while we were not prepared to buy any this morning (no money on hand), I did score one, thanks to my teacher friend who spotted this spiffy thing, scooped it up, and shared it with me bright and early. She’s the same girl who personalized her license plate with my initials, and shows up at Making Strides events to support her survivor pals. She also happened to be Joey’s third grade teacher, and if we’re lucky, Danny will be in her class next year. She’s definitely on my list of faves — and so is my pretty-in-pink pencil. Love it.

BondiBand: October Discounts on Headbands

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These are my absolute favorite headbands! I love them for me, and I love them for other people (they are perfect  for affordable gift-giving).

Well, they just got better, because in the spirit of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, BondiBand (the place where function meets fashion) is slashing prices! Woo-Hoo!

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www.bondiband.com

Starting now, and through October 31, 2010, save $3 on cancer-themed headbands, including the solid-pink variety, and save $5 on cancer-themed hats. At the end of the month, 10% of gross proceeds will be donated to the Dana Farber Cancer Institute.

Get yourself shopping, and pick up a few for you, then think about birthday gifts, teacher gifts, holiday gifts, and more. I’m headed there now — meet you there!

And the Pendant Goes to Donna!

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“My Mom was diagnosed with ovarian cancer and had surgery along with several hard months of chemo,” says Donna, who is the lucky winner of the Ovarian Cancer Marble Pendant.

“She lost her beautiful hair (she is mistaken for Barbara Bush so you know how beautiful her white hair was). She was a trooper, went through all of this and is cancer-free and living proof that technology is getting closer to finding a cure for ovarian cancer! I would love to give this pendant to my Mom. She is one strong woman who now cares for my Dad 24/7. Unselfish love is my Mom.”

Congrats, Donna, on your big win! I’m guessing your mom is really going to love this awesome gift.

Big thanks go to Dawn at Out of the Blue Delivered! This giveaway would not have been possible without her generosity. And guess what? She’s going to offer a freebie for Breast Cancer Awareness Month, too, so stay tuned.

Ovarian Cancer Marble Pendant: Giveaway

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www.outofthebluedelivered.com

It’s almost October, and yes, that means Breast Cancer Awareness Month is just about here.

But we’re not talking breast cancer right now.

Nope, we’re paying some attention to another cancer, because guess what? September is Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month, and the word needs to get out that 21,880 women will be diagnosed with ovarian cancer in 2010, and 13,850 will die from it.

Serious stuff!

But here’s something happy:

My friend Dawn at Out of the Blue Delivered has generously offered to give away an Ovarian Cancer Support Marble Pendant to one lucky reader. She’s nice like that, and she happens to be my favorite champion of the cancer cause.

It’s nothing but simple to enter to win:

  • Shop around at Out of the Blue Delivered.
  • Then, leave a comment revealing your favorite item!
  • Leave your comment no later than 5PM ET on Tuesday, September 21, 2010.
  • You may enter only once.
  • Open to legal residents of the 50 United States, and the District of Columbia, who are 18 and older.
  • One winner will be selected in a random drawing via random.org.
  • One winner will receive one book, valued at $20.00.
  • Winners will be notified by email, so make sure to check next week to find out if you’ve won!

See, Breast Cancer Does Bear Gifts

Breast cancer gave me a gift today. It arrived in my mailbox, and I think it’s pretty cool. Yes, I’m silly like that, thinking gifts can flow from something very frightening and life-threatening. Some day, I’ll write all about the upside of cancer. For now, I just want to share my nifty keychain!

Gift by breast cancer

Gift by breast cancer

A Gift Idea and a Giveaway

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There are a few reasons this post might please you:

1. You are a die-hard scrapbooker, and getting your hands on Creative Memories products makes you silly happy.

2. You’re a weekend warrior, slapping pics in books when a free moment presents itself (that’s me!), and so you always need some gear on hand.

3. You have piles and piles of photos surrounding you, and you desperately need to stick those things in books.

4. You care not about photos and albums and supplies, but you need a crafty little gift for someone in need.

I like No. 4 the best, because folks are always asking me to suggest a gift for someone newly diagnosed with cancer, someone heading toward a scary surgery, someone about to face chemo. I always say a candle, a book, some comfy socks. But I’m thinking this is a pretty grand idea, too: How about a small scrapbook with blank pages inside? A pen, some stickers, inspiring embellishments, maybe? Perfect for journaling a cancer adventure — I promise the act of writing it all down can heal lots of wounds.

Another idea: You create a book for your special someone. Add a few photos, some favorite quotes, let your imagination run wild. Need ideas? Here are a few.

OK, time to head on over to the Creative Memories website and browse around. (Be sure to check out these two options, my favorites: Paper Album Kit and  Faithbooking Bundle.)

Now, here’s the best part of this post: For every purchase made by a reader through my friend Mischelle (she’s a CM consultant), she will donate 20% of the order (before tax and shipping) to The Breast Cancer Research Foundation. And for every $25 you spend, your name will be entered into a drawing for a fancy gift. So, get this: If you order $100 worth of product, your name will go in the hat four times.

And what could you win?

  • One White Pearl True 12×12 album with white pages and page protectors
  • Tape runner (adhesive)
  • Scissors
  • Photo-safe black journaling pen
  • Blooms Decorative paper pack
  • Pastel card pack
  • Simply Beautiful Title stickers.

The prize package is worth $100 (before tax and shipping).  If you order online with a credit card, please make sure your orders are made through this link, and click on the wording above each item that says: Credit this order to my Host. If you wish to order directly through Mischelle, you can pay with cash, check or M.O. — but not a credit card. Regardless of how you order, please leave a comment here to let us know you’ve made a purchase. Just say something like, “I ordered!” That’s how we’ll know you are part of the giveaway!

And please note these few rules:

  • Open to legal residents of the United States and Canada only, who are 18 and older.
  • One winner will be selected in a random drawing.
  • No P.O. boxes, please.
  • Winners will be notified by email, so make sure to check next week to find out if you’ve won!

Ready to shop? We’re giving you two weeks (time is up Sunday, May 2, 2010 at midnight) — then we’ll reveal the winner!

Note: Mischelle dedicates her participation in the project to two incredible ladies in her life: Carmen Morrison (her my mom #2) and her dear friend Chris Overstreet, both of whom are battling breast cancer.

Hope, Dare, Dream

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Thanks, Mom!

I asked my mom for note paper this Christmas. Just something simple for jotting down all the stuff I’m always scribbling (lists are my life, they’re the only way I stay sane). And like always, my sweet momma delivered. She didn’t just grab a few boring pads of paper, though. Nope. She found the inspirational stuff that makes me motivated to live like it matters — you know, to be a good mom and wife, help others, run a half marathon, eat healthy (after the holidays, I promise!), take risks, kick cancer’s butt, that kind of stuff.

And here sits my stack of stationery, right next to me on my desk, reminding me to hope, dare and dream. Oh, and she threw in a cute pad with apples on it (another reminder I need to get a grip on my nutritious ways, maybe?), and two pretty personalized pads, too.

I got a lot of great gear for Christmas this year — a hot pink sports bra and running shorts for those 13.1 miles, yummy body lotions, delicious candles, a trendy little vest for chilly Florida days, a mom-made scarf and more. The paper: A definite favorite.

Thanks, mom, for everything — you know me so well.

Jacki’s Breast Cancer Patient iCarePkg

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OK, so it’s no secret that my favorite breast cancer gifts are books, socks and candles — they were my faves when people were gifting me almost five years ago, and they’re what I choose to give others embarking on the horrible and wonderful journey.

I told a friend this once, and she just happens to have this cute online gift shop, and I just realized she is now selling these three in a clever little package.

Best of all (for me, anyway) is the name she gave the gift:

Jacki’s Breast Cancer Patient iCarePkg.

Thanks, Dawn!

So, the appeal of Dawn’s store is that no matter what the occasion, she’s got something you can send (for him, for her, for teachers, for pet lovers — you can even warm up a house, a wedding or a shower). So, be sure to browse the aisles of  Out of the Blue Delivered for all of your gift-giving needs. And stop by my namesake while you’re there.

Oh, and don’t forget to enter this giveaway — Dawn is giving away something breast cancer-ish for free!

Giveaway – For My Courageous Sisterchick

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Best-selling author Robin Jones Gunn’s  Sisterchick Series follows women, best-friend types, on adventures around the world, and her book “Sisterchicks in Wooden Shoes” narrates the story of a woman facing breast cancer. In the book, the main character comes across an adaptation of Psalm 23, and readers have had such a strong and positive reaction to the passage that it’s been made into an inspiring placard. For just $6, this frameable card can be yours.

Or you can win one here — I have three, and I’ll gift them to the first three people who leave a comment on this post.

Ready. Set. Go.

Wait, one more thing: I’ve got a coupon code for you — use it when you shop at shop.robingunn.com, and you’ll save 20% on your total order. The code: CANCERSPOT.

For My Courageous Sisterchick®

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not freak out.
He makes me lie down under scanning machines,
He leads me to trustworthy doctors,
He restores my deductible.

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death
(And keep on walking and don’t get stuck
or sit down or have a hissy fit),
I will fear no evil,
For You are with me.

Your new creation health renewal plan
And perfect timing, they comfort me.

You prepare an organic diet before me
In the presence of my injections.
You anoint my baldhead with oil
When my bra cup no longer overflows.

Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life,

And when You at last pull my chart and call my name,
I shall arise
And dwell with You in Your house,
Forever.

Adapted from the 23rd Psalm
Appears in “Sisterchicks® in Wooden Shoes!”
Copyright © 2009 by Robin’s Nest Productions Inc.

Celebration 4 Life Giveaway – 12 Will Win

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Enter below to win one cap and one Keep Cool bandanna.

I’m back with more about the Celebration 4 Life gear. You know, the shirts, caps and Keep Cool bandannas (aka cooling neck wraps) modeled by my boys in a previous post. Yea, those. But I’m not here to just chit-chat about these goodies. I’m here to give them away. Well, the Celebration 4 Life folks are giving them away. I’m just providing the avenue by which you can score some free stuff.

One cap and one cooling neck wrap can be all yours if you enter this giveaway. And if you win, you’ll get to choose the cap and wrap of your choice. Pretty generous, huh? It gets better.

Celebration 4 Life will award 12 winners. Yes, 12. So be sure to leave a comment (but only one) so you have a chance at getting these great goods.

Here’s exactly what you need to do:

  • Visit this site and leave a comment below sharing the model number of both the cap and cooling neck wrap you want (note: Caps with the thin reflective bands are standard size, and the ones with the wider reflective bands are smaller).
  • Leave your comment no later than 5PM ET on Friday, September 25, 2009.
  • You may enter only once.
  • Open to legal residents of the 50 United States, and the District of Columbia, who are 18 and older.
  • Twelve winners will be selected in a random drawing.
  • Twelve winners will receive one cap ($13) and one cooling neck wrap, ($5), valued at $18.
  • Winners will be notified by email and in a post on this blog, so make sure to check next week to find out if you’ve won!

Before you leave the Celebration 4 Life site, check out their free downloads, and use them if you can. OK, that’s all. Good Luck!

Giveaway – Breast Cancer Ribbon Bracelet

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If you think this breast cancer bracelet would look great on your wrist, or you’d love to give it to someone as a gift, or you just like scoring things for free, then you’ve got to enter this giveaway.

My friend Dawn over at Out of the Blue Delivered is giving away this pretty piece, and all you need to do to enter this contest is leave a comment on this post — well, after you hop on over to Dawn’s online store and shop around a bit. Out of the Blue Delivered specializes in gifts for every occasion, and I want to know all about your favorite find. Here’s exactly what you need to do:

  • Leave a comment below and share what gift you like best from Out of the Blue Delivered.
  • Leave your comment no later than 5PM ET on Wednesday, June 25, 2009.
  • You may enter only once.
  • One winner will be selected in a random drawing.
  • One winner will receive one breast cancer ribbon bracelet, valued at $18.
  • Winners will be notified by email and in a post on this blog, so make sure to check next week to find out if you’ve won!

Out of the Blue Delivered

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If you want to get something for someone with cancer and you have no idea how to show you care,  Out of the Blue Delivered has you covered. They’ve got unique gifts made by artisans for every occasion and life event, and unfortunately, cancer has become quite a common life event. Shop on over here and check out all the nifty options — bracelets, earrings, Soup for the Soul, pillows and the cutest ever Hug Shrug. And see that “Heal” plaque pictured above? It’s my favorite.

Maybe cancer isn’t your occasion (and I hope it’s not). No problem, there are plenty of other gift themes available — Father’s Day is coming up, might want to shop for that. If you like all things green and recyced, this is your place. Need a teacher gift, a housewarming gift, a mommy gift? Yep, Out of the Blue Delivered has those too. Take a peek — I know you’ll find something to warm the hearts of the special folks in your life.

Countdown to Mother’s Day – May 8, 2009

I love to give baskets full of goodies for gifts. I love a good theme too. So I’m recommending you get yourself a basket (or a mini storage bin, tote bag, anything that hold goods — just don’t make it a laundry basket, OK?). Then get yourself a theme, and put together a little something special for mom on Mother’s Day.

Pick a healthy eating theme, and fill your basket with an assortment of fruit. Choose a summer reading theme, and stock your basket with a few books (try this one), a bookmark, a pair of sunglasses and a sun hat. How about summer movies? Gather some movie tickets or a Blockbuster gift card, some microwave popcorn and some not-so-treacherous movie candy (Milk Duds are better than peanut M&Ms). And my favorite: The R&R basket, complete with candle, bubble bath, body lotions and gift certificate for a pedicure. Your basket can be a hodge-podge of all mom’s favorite things, too. You get to decide — just get out there and decide, because Mother’s Day is on Sunday, and it’s Friday, and, well, you’re running out of time.

Countdown to Mother’s Day – May 7, 2009

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Are these not the cutest flip flops ever? They’d make a pretty nifty Mother’s Day gift, wouldn’t they? I’m thinking so. In fact, I know how comfy these Havaianas Fit cuties are — my sister won a silver pair in a giveaway recently, and she passed them on to me (she’d just bought herself some silver sandals and was feeling generous) — and so I can promise mom will love them. Well, maybe not promise. But chances are, she’ll feel pretty sporty and summery in her very own pair. All you need to do is shell out $30 bucks (she’s worth it, right?) and order a pair for mommy dearest. Pick from pink, white, black, silver or gold. Hey, get a  pair for yourself while you’re at it.